My mom wont let me go to a birthday party?

Shes really a control freak and wont let me go to my real close friends suprise party. She dosen't like me having friends that are not muslim. She hates almost all my friends and they're not the bad type (all smart and alot going to geomretry next year in 8th grade).She thinks im really dumb even though some people think im a geek (she really does think that , not just thinking i can be smarter). She teases me alot and is very tradition and hates romance mojo. She wants me to have friends in her community even though they're all snotty and mean. She yells all the time. I really want to go to the party but she wants me to go to another party instead with thhe mean and snotty kids.She dosen't like swimming pool parties either wich is what it is. Help!!!!