Christians or Atheists, who should I believe?

I get bullied by both sides of the spectrum and it's freakin absurd. And people in both of these groups are always practising things that show their hypocrisy. Should I join the intelligence elitists or the morality elitists? Anyone else out there who can't stand being imposed on by both sides(share your experiences)? No arrogant, anonydouching , being snotty , begging the question, attacking the person and one sided answers or I will delete the question!